About Therapy With Donnie
I became a therapist because I’m endlessly fascinated by the space where psychology meets real life — relationships, identity, attachment, body image, self-worth, social media, generational patterns.
I’ve worked with countless young adults who look put together on the outside yet feel lost, lonely, or overwhelmed inside. People who were raised to perform, achieve, please others, or silence parts of themselves just to keep the peace.
Helping you reconnect with the parts of you that were ignored, dismissed, or misunderstood — that’s the work I care about.
Watching clients become more grounded, more secure, and more themselves… that’s why I do this.
I’m licensed to provide therapy in New York and approved to offer telehealth services to clients located in Vermont.
Why I Love This Work
“I highly recommend Donnie for any Gen Z or Millennial in NY wanting to address body image and self-esteem issues. She is authentic, witty, and an all around amazing person and therapist.”
-Donna Vo Sotomayor, RMFTI
What Sets Me Apart?
My Approach
I bring warmth, authenticity, and a down-to-earth style to therapy.
Sessions with me are laid back and conversational, not rigid or clinical. I won’t just hand you a worksheet and send you on your way. Instead, we’ll talk through what you’re experiencing in a way that feels natural, while I also offer tools and resources when they’re helpful for your growth.
My clients often tell me they appreciate my balance of compassion and honesty - I’ll listen deeply, but I’ll also gently challenge you when it helps your growth.
I value humor, real conversation, and creating a space where you don’t have to filter yourself.
Holistic Healing
If therapy hasn’t worked for you in the past, it may be because you were trying to change your thoughts while your body was still stuck in survival mode. My approach helps bridge that gap.
I don’t believe therapy is just about “talking.” Real healing means looking at the whole picture - your mind, body, emotions, and even the deeper layers of who you are. Together, we’ll get to know each of these layers so you can understand yourself in a new way and start healing from the ‘ground up.’
Credentials: Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) - NY
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker - Telehealth
Certified Advanced Holistic Counselor
A decade of experience supporting adults with anxiety, relationships, and self-worth
Compassion
I approach every session with warmth and genuine care. My goal is to create a space where you feel supported and understood, even on the days when things feel heavy or overwhelming.
Respect
Your story and your pace matter. I’ll always honor your boundaries, listen to your voice, and work collaboratively so that therapy feels safe and empowering for you. YOU get to decide what your goals are. If something’s not working, we can change course at any time.
Nonjudgment
Therapy is a place where you don’t have to filter yourself or worry about being “too much.” You can bring your real thoughts, feelings, and experiences here without fear of criticism.
My practice is inclusive and affirming.
I work with clients of all races, cultures, sexualities, gender identities, and backgrounds. No matter what you bring into the room, you will be treated with respect and dignity.
My Values
“I have worked alongside Donnie from our early days in training, and now as practice owners. I can confidently say that she is the example of someone who puts in the work for their clients, and for themselves, which is equally important when navigating sensitive topics. She’s a go-to referral and everyone I’ve referred speaks highly of her and their own progress. Confused or fearful young adults transform into confident versions of themselves with Donnie.”
-Irene Koutsidis-Martelli, LCSW
