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THERAPYwith Donnie

Islip, NY

The comparison does not stop when you log off.

Therapy for Islip, virtually anywhere in New York or in person east along the shore in Patchogue. Free fifteen minute consult first.

In person or by video. The office is in Patchogue, and virtual sessions are available anywhere in New York if travel is not practical.

Book a free consult

Fifteen minutes, free, and nothing to prepare.

Prefer to call or text? 631-371-4888

A crisp patch of midday sun and a soft leaf shadow across a clean pale wall.
Sessions
Virtual anywhere in New York, or in person in Patchogue.
Travel
East along the South Shore.
Focus
Comparison, social media, body image and self-worth.
Insurance
Aetna, Northwell Direct, UnitedHealthcare and Optum, plus private pay.

Why people here get in touch

Comparison stopped being something you choose.

Most people can name the moment scrolling started to cost them something, and almost nobody can stop by deciding to. The measuring becomes automatic, and it continues offline: in a shop window, at a party, walking past a group of people you will never speak to.

Therapy for this is less about screen time rules and more about what the comparing is doing for you. It is usually attached to a belief about where you rank and what happens if you rank badly, and that belief is the thing worth working on.

Getting here

Where the office actually is.

Islip is on the South Shore of Suffolk County, west of Patchogue along the same stretch of coast. The office is a drive east along the shore, and virtual sessions remove the trip entirely.

Whichever format you pick, the consult is free and it is a conversation rather than an assessment. Nothing about the first call commits you to booking anything.

Common questions

Asked by people in Islip.

Will you tell me to delete social media?
No. Blanket rules tend not to survive contact with real life. What is more useful is understanding what the comparing is doing for you, which is what makes any change to how you use it stick.
Do you see Islip clients in person?
Yes, at the Patchogue office east along the shore, and virtually anywhere in New York.
Is there a waiting list?
Availability changes. The consult is the quickest way to find out what is currently open rather than assuming either way.
Therapy With Donnie

Fifteen minutes, before you decide anything.

A free consult for anyone in Islip. It is a conversation about what is going on and whether working together makes sense, with nothing to prepare.

Book a free consult

Prefer to call or text? 631-371-4888

Insurance accepted for select New York plans: Aetna, Northwell Direct, UnitedHealthcare and Optum. Private pay and sliding scale available everywhere, including Vermont.